Return2SELF by Glenda Maitin

Sometimes in life, we come to a point where we feel an undeniable pull to pursue what’s deeply embedded in our hearts. It’s the dreams we’ve carried for so long, the purpose we were created for, the longing that whispers, “Now is the time.” But stepping into that purpose isn’t always easy. It often means facing challenges that test our faith, resilience, and spiritual strength. I recently found myself in such a battle, one that opened my eyes to the reality of spiritual warfare and how it intersects with the choices we make to follow our calling. What transpired wasn’t just a series of events but a profound experience that taught me about rising above unseen battles with faith, prayer, and discernment.   A Dream That Spoke of Challenges One night, I dreamt of a curled-up snake. It was still, lying in my path, almost as though waiting to strike. Instead of being overcome with fear, I leapt over it and moved on. At first, I didn’t think much of it, but as I reflected, the imagery beg...

Today, South Africa celebrates  Human Rights Day , a day dedicated to recognizing and advocating for fundamental rights such as freedom, equality, dignity, and justice. It’s a powerful reminder of the values that unite us and the principles we must uphold for one another, no matter our race, nationality, or background.    But as we reflect on these universal rights, I’d like to ask a question that runs a bit closer to home.  How are you treating yourself as a human being?   Are You Truly Allowing Yourself to Be Free?  When we think of freedom, we often associate it with external circumstances. But have you paused to ask if you’re truly free within yourself? Are you allowing yourself to live without guilt, shame, or the weight of past mistakes?    On this Human Rights Day, imagine what it would mean to extend these same values of freedom, dignity, and justice to yourself. To liberate yourself from the cage of self-judgment and treat your inner bein...

"You have nailed yourself to a cross, and placed a crown of thorns upon your own head." Quote from  A Course in Miracles  paint a vivid and challenging picture of emotional and mental self-sacrifice. They speak directly to how often I unwittingly betray myself with choices that deplete my self-worth, causing me to prioritize others at the expense of my own wellbeing.  Recently, a friend offered me a different perspective, she posed a simple yet piercing question… "When is it enough?" This gave me pause and urged me to examine my patterns of over-sacrifice, ultimately shifting my relationship with myself.  What Does Self-Sacrifice Really Mean?  Self-sacrifice often presents itself as a virtue. It’s the instinct to prioritize another’s needs over your own—to give, to serve, to support. While this behavior is commendable in moderation, it becomes problematic when repeated to a degree that harms your emotional, mental, or physical health….Yup this is me then I mask ...

Why Do We Get in Our Own Way? Have you ever promised yourself a fresh start—only to keep putting things off? Maybe you’ve had a huge goal right in front of you, but instead of leaning in, you found yourself dodging every step forward. Sound familiar? That’s procrastination and self-sabotage showing up, trying to convince you that avoiding the work is easier than facing your fears. Here’s the truth—it’s something we all struggle with at some point. These habits aren’t about laziness or lack of ambition. They often come from fears or patterns we might not even realize are there. The great news? You can break free. All it takes is some self-awareness, practical tools, and a mindset shift. When you KNOW who you are, you can BE who you are and the DO great exploits! Here’s where the magic really starts to happen. At the core of moving past procrastination lies a guiding philosophy— Knowing~Being~Doing · Knowing - When you truly understand who you are and what you want, it becomes easier...